Secret #57 Don't Confuse Being Busy with Being Important

The thought of saying NO to things screaming for our time and attention creates tension in our hearts… doesn’t it?

Why is that?

One reason is because in our culture busyness is a deeply held VALUE. Why? Because in our culture busyness suggests importance, competence, success—and even spirituality.

But does being busy really mean you’re important, competent, successful, or spiritual? Not necessarily.

Think about it. Being busy may mean you’re chicken to say no and that you have boundary issues. It may mean you don't have a clue about what’s really important in life. It may mean you've placed your identity and self worth on the thin ice of performance.

Don't confuse being busy with being important, competent, successful or spiritual. They may NOT be related at all.

Just a thought.

BA